The Kingdom Spouse Journey | Obey Before Play

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💍 A Sacred Journey Worth Seeking God About

Marriage is one of the most sacred and transformative commitments a person can make. It’s no surprise, then, that God deeply cares about who we marry and how that relationship begins. Unfortunately, in today’s culture—especially in America—marriage is often glorified more than it is honored, leading many to rush into it for the wrong reasons. The result? Broken homes, wounded families, and children who suffer the consequences of choices never brought before God.

If you sense you’re on what many call a Kingdom Spouse Journey, and there are stages, expect to be challenged and stretched. God’s process doesn’t usually align with cultural norms or personal timelines. His ways are higher, and His plans are deeper.

There is a real enemy who wants to kill, steal, and destroy (John 10:10), especially anything designed to glorify God—including marriage. To walk in a God-ordained union, you must be willing to examine your life, grow spiritually, and surrender your idea of love and timing to His.

🌍 When Marriage Mirrors the World Instead of God

A worldly marriage happens when God’s voice and leading are left out of the equation. In a culture where image often outweighs substance, it’s easy to mistake lust, infatuation, or social validation for real love. Many people unknowingly enter marriage chasing status, pleasure, or emotional highs rather than a Christ-centered covenant.

Take, for example, the woman who marries for wealth—drawn more to the lifestyle than the man himself. Or the man who marries based on physical appearance or sexual attraction, viewing his wife more as a trophy than a true partner. In both cases, there’s often little spiritual or emotional alignment, and these relationships can become transactional or hollow over time.

That said, not all marriages that began without prayer or spiritual insight are doomed. God, in His mercy, can work through imperfect beginnings—even those rooted in worldly motives. Many people come to Christ after marriage, and God can still redeem and transform that union for His glory. This isn’t about condemnation—it’s about reflection and surrender.

Is it really a mystery why the divorce rate is so high in America? Not at all. When marriage becomes a social competition—who gets married first, who marries the most attractive or wealthy partner—it reduces sacred commitment to a checklist. And when the foundation is shallow, it’s no surprise the structure struggles to stand.

🔗 Divine Connection: When Souls Recognize Each Other

How does God unite two people in a chaotic world where meaning often feels elusive? The answer, more often than not, lies in a spiritual connection—a sense of resonance that goes beyond logic or circumstance. But even this connection isn’t always complete at first; true unity is sealed through covenant and consummation.

When you’re near the person God may be drawing you toward, you might feel something indescribable. There’s a magnetic pull—a desire to move closer, to know them more deeply. At the same time, there’s a fear of rejection or vulnerability that makes you want to pull away. Love, especially when it feels real, exposes our deepest hopes and fears.

The more you care about someone, the more terrifying it becomes to imagine losing them. Sometimes God even plants seeds early through dreams, spiritual signs, or recurring synchronicities. While these moments can be powerful, they often amplify the emotional weight of the connection, making patience and trust even more vital.

📖 Genesis 2:22 (NIV)

²² Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

Have you been seeing the number 222 repeatedly? Many believe this may be a spiritual nudge, drawing attention to Genesis 2:22—where God brings the woman to the man. This verse reveals a foundational truth: Eve wasn’t found through striving. She was presented.

That said, while God brought Eve to Adam, Adam still had to receive and pursue her. Whether she made the first move or not, the important thing is that it was a two-way connection—mutual, respectful, and divinely aligned.

❤️ A Note to Men and Women

• Men: Don’t sit idle if you sense she’s the one. Step forward, but also respect her response—this should never be one-sided.
• Women: Be mindful of how you carry your presence. Defensive tactics like ghosting, testing, blocking, or manipulative games can discourage even the most sincere man. A Godly man isn’t looking for drama—he’s looking for peace.

🔍 Your Mirror: Reflecting God’s Glory Through Relationship

The person God has for you often acts like a mirror—reflecting not just your strengths but also your insecurities and areas that need growth. The intensity of emotions you experience with them isn’t accidental; it’s by divine design. God uses this reflection to shine a light on what needs healing, growth, and transformation.

For example, if a man struggles with health, perhaps it’s time to prioritize fitness. If a woman faces challenges like an alcohol habit, it’s a call to seek help and healing. These are simple illustrations, but the core idea is this: God wants you to become the best version of yourself—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—before and during this union.

When both partners grow and strengthen individually, their marriage becomes a living testament to God’s glory. It’s as if God is saying,
“Look at this couple who serves Me—watch what I will do through them!”

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🛡️ Deception and Spiritual Warfare: Will You Stand and Fight?

✨ God’s Choice for Your Marriage: Divine Guidance and Revelation

A female minister I follow, Clare Du Bois, shares that she receives visitations from the Lord—experiences reminiscent of those recorded in the life and diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska. I discovered her ministry after praying earnestly over my life with this powerful promise in mind:

📖 Jeremiah 33:3 (NIV)

³ ‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’

This verse reminds us that God is always ready to reveal His plans—sometimes in ways beyond our understanding—especially concerning life’s most important decisions, like marriage. Trust in His guidance as you seek clarity and peace about your path.

Below are some words claimed to be from Jesus to her in Clare’s message titled: God’s Choice For Your Marriage

“I have only your best interests in mind, My people, but many of you duck and dodge My warnings, because your flesh dominates your thinking. Your greatest protection from these errors is purity of heart, mind and body. When you are purified, you set standards that–if properly protected and maintained–will serve you for your entire lives.

“There are many choices you will refuse to make because you have chosen Purity as your standard. You will continually, in all areas of your lives, apply those standards before engaging anything of importance in your environment. Some overestimate their strength and open themselves to occasions of sin–and then it is too late. A bondage has already been formed.

“Notice I said, a ‘bondage,’ not a ‘bond.’ Men form bondages; I form bonds. As it is written, “Let no man separate what God has joined.”

“But so many have joined themselves to what I did not choose for them and live in unhappy marriages, lessening their children’s chances of happy marriages. And the sin gets passed from generation to generation, until one of them chooses to live in obedience to Me and waits for the right partner to marry.

“Consider, My people. Are you in a relationship that has caused you more grief than joy? Have you created a bondage to this person by not waiting to have sexual relations? Are you thinking, ‘This is my last chance for happiness in marriage; I am getting too old?’ Let me assure you, that is a lie from Satan, spoken over you to cause you to enter into a tragic relationship. It is never too late for you and the longer you wait, the greater your reward.“

💍 Kingdom Marriage | Divine Purpose and Healing

While you deeply desire to be with your Kingdom partner, remember that God’s chosen one still has free will. It’s possible that the marriage may not happen if either of you doesn’t work through your personal struggles. God’s ultimate goal is to protect both of you — He doesn’t want either partner to cause harm to the other.

The enemy has already inflicted wounds on us in many ways, so a Kingdom marriage is meant to be a union of healing. Ask yourself: Are you drawn to toxic traits? If so, this could be the enemy’s influence at work. True healing cannot happen unless deliverance from toxicity takes place.

Ultimately, a Kingdom marriage serves God’s greater purpose—to bring souls into His Kingdom. Two are stronger than one, and this divine purpose will sustain the relationship over time. Worldly pursuits may leave the soul empty, but a couple grounded in God will thrive, growing healthy and strong together.

You can navigate this journey with faith. And even if things don’t work out, remember: God can always provide something better than what was before. Don’t give up on Him. This fallen world is full of trials, but sometimes what feels like failure is simply preparation for the real blessing ahead.

⚔️ Struggles After Union | Facing Temptations Together

✅ Conclusion

This post may not be easy for everyone to hear—it might even upset some. But I wasn’t placed on this Earth to please everyone; I’m here to fulfill the work God has given me. I have remained a virgin and avoided illegal drugs my entire life. Now at 32, I understand my path clearly: I carry the Generational Curse Breaker Anointing to restore and heal my family line.

🌿 Final Thoughts

I also recognize the real dangers out there—like STDs—which reinforce my commitment to purity. I’ve waited patiently for the right woman—someone who will treat me well, choose me wholeheartedly, live in purity, and communicate openly when necessary. These are the minimum, non-negotiable foundations for any relationship rooted in God.

It’s really that simple. If this feels hard to understand, then something needs to be reconsidered.

🎵 Here’s the ending music. 🎵